What should I do? In need of advice?

-I've got this unfortunate problem. I'm a 20 year old male virgin (that's not the problem). Anyway, all my life I have sort of voluntarily refrained myself from sex, and even the company of the opposite sex. I'm not sure why. I just never really wanted anything to do with it. It's actually a rather complicated thing. I also have never dated. So over time I have grown accustomed to being a lone wolf and being very independent in my decision making. I've discovered a strong distaste that I have for marriage and intimate companionship in general. I think its really, for lack of a better term, stupid. The problem, however, is that now that I'm beginning to mature, it seems as though my body wants sex but in my mind I'm still very much against it. So I have three questions. 1. Is it difficult to refrain from sex in one's 20s? 2. Should I give in and find a woman? Or should I just continue how I've been doing (because that's what I want to do)? And 3. What steps could I take to rid myself of sexual desire?



Thanks to the serious responders.I am kind of like that. I date guys but am not committed.

First of all I really, really, REALLY don't think you should just all of a sudden start getting intimate with girls. You waited a long time to just give it up to some whore that has been having sex since she was 13. You don't want an STD.

If I was in your situation, I would first find myself a girlfriend. A girl who isn't shy, but doesn't rush things.

Are your parents divorced? This may be why you have a distaste to marriage.

Answers to your questions in short term:

#1: It may be difficult but defiantly possible.

#2: NO! NO! NO! A girl should deserve the honor of you waiting. Slowly start changing your lifestyle.

#3: Go to a gym, volunteer, watch movies, work, go shopping, etc.